testsupport: allow disabling timeouts with stdio connection

[justarandomgeek]

I've been struggling significantly with getting the testsupport client to run my debugadapter, and in the process have needed to attach a debugger to my debug adapter running under the testsupport client, but it does not run in network mode, so I keep getting cut off by the timeouts from testsupport, and i can't seem to disable them. Additionally, when I set the timeout to a very long time (several minutes), it hangs the process for that long after debugging ends, even if nothing else is going on.

[roblourens]

Sorry, which timeouts from testsupport? And it's not clear why that is hanging the process. It has been a bit since I looked at this code, apologies, but I want the dev experience to be good.

[justarandomgeek]

The ones that it says it disables when using a tcp port in .start()?

I've once again done a horrible hack for now, but... seriously? having to do silly stuff like this is nuts!

await dc.start();
// fake "socket" to disable timeouts
(dc as any)._socket = { end: ()=>{} };

[justarandomgeek]

Further investigation has revealed that these timeouts were merely a red herring for my actual issue (stdin pipes breaking due to testrunner console weirdness), but an option to disable them for testing still seems worthwhile.

[justarandomgeek]

The hang occurs becuase:

1. A test runs to a point where the debugee exits
2. The adapter emits a Terminated event, and itself exits (gracefully, so that i can get coverage info from tests too - if i wait for .stop to kill it i get none because on windows a kill is really a kill)
3. The test suite calls DebugClient.stop() (because the example showed that, and because some tests might not run to termination)
4. The DebugClient sends a disconnect request to the dead adapter, and waits for the long timeout

vscode-debugadapter-node/testSupport/src/debugClient.ts

Line 124 in a533ebc

public stop(): Promise<void> {