[cmake] Update deps to fix cmake version errors

[tobil4sk]

The mac static build was failing with errors like this:

CMake Error at CMakeLists.txt:1 (cmake_minimum_required):
  Compatibility with CMake < 3.5 has been removed from CMake.

  Update the VERSION argument <min> value.  Or, use the <min>...<max> syntax
  to tell CMake that the project requires at least <min> but has been updated
  to work with policies introduced by <max> or earlier.

  Or, add -DCMAKE_POLICY_VERSION_MINIMUM=3.5 to try configuring anyway.


-- Configuring incomplete, errors occurred!

There are still these errors with the mac arm64 build:

/Users/runner/work/neko/neko/libs/src/MariaDBConnector/libmariadb/ma_context.c:676:6: error: inline asm clobber list contains reserved registers: X18 [-Werror,-Winline-asm]
     "mov x10, sp\n\t"
     ^
/Users/runner/work/neko/neko/libs/src/MariaDBConnector/libmariadb/ma_context.c:676:6: note: Reserved registers on the clobber list may not be preserved across the asm statement, and clobbering them may lead to undefined behaviour.
/Users/runner/work/neko/neko/libs/src/MariaDBConnector/libmariadb/ma_context.c:746:6: error: inline asm clobber list contains reserved registers: X18 [-Werror,-Winline-asm]
     "ldp x13, x11, [%[save], #0]\n\t"
     ^
/Users/runner/work/neko/neko/libs/src/MariaDBConnector/libmariadb/ma_context.c:746:6: note: Reserved registers on the clobber list may not be preserved across the asm statement, and clobbering them may lead to undefined behaviour.
/Users/runner/work/neko/neko/libs/src/MariaDBConnector/libmariadb/ma_context.c:846:6: error: inline asm clobber list contains reserved registers: X18 [-Werror,-Winline-asm]
     "ldp x13, x11, [%[save], #0]\n\t"
     ^
/Users/runner/work/neko/neko/libs/src/MariaDBConnector/libmariadb/ma_context.c:846:6: note: Reserved registers on the clobber list may not be preserved across the asm statement, and clobbering them may lead to undefined behaviour.
3 errors generated.

These errors are mentioned here: mariadb-corporation/mariadb-connector-c#273