[common] Remove kvpacked and qkvpacked attention functions for every kernel type. #2287
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There are 3 variants of fused_attention functions: for separate QKV, KV packed and QKV packed, which differ only by pointers to qkv. This results in code duplication for each type of the fused attention kernel: arbitrary seqlen, max 512 and fp8. This PR deduplicates the code and moves pointer computation one abstraction layer - from the functions like
fused_attn_max_512_fwd_qkvpackedinto the functions likenvte_fused_attn_fwd_qkvpackedin common c++ api.These packed versions of common attention api functions are used by JAX, so I think running JAX CI is good test of that changes. PyTorch uses only non-packed function.
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