FMWK-802 parameterize embedded aerospike server

[gagan405]

• Changed build.yml to start an aerospike server
• Modified the bean injection to handle cases where GenericContainer is not available - i.e., when not enabled
• Updated application.properties with default values when container is not running

Tests:

• with container enabled: https://github.com/aerospike/spring-data-aerospike/actions/runs/19342095389
• with container disabled: https://github.com/aerospike/spring-data-aerospike/actions/runs/19342215272