fix: don't apply charset on document opening

[SunsetTechuila]

fixes #465

I see only two ways to trigger the didOpenTextDocument event without also triggering didChangeActiveTextEditor:

• change language mode
• change encoding

In neither of those cases do we need to apply charset

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