feat(memory): add memory socket binding for dedicated and shared cores pods

[luomingmeng]

What type of PR is this?

Enhancements

What this PR does / why we need it:

Enable memory socket binding to expand memory allocation to the whole socket when enabled for dedicated_cores and shared_cores pods.

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

Special notes for your reviewer:

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 89.28571% with 3 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 60.89%. Comparing base (144a9e2) to head (bc03d15).
⚠️ Report is 153 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...md/katalyst-agent/app/options/qrm/memory_plugin.go	50.00%	2 Missing ⚠️
...memory/dynamicpolicy/policy_allocation_handlers.go	95.65%	1 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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##             main    #1094      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   61.00%   60.89%   -0.12%     
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  Files         739      739              
  Lines       69780    69799      +19     
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- Hits        42570    42501      -69     
- Misses      22445    22518      +73     
- Partials     4765     4780      +15     

Flag	Coverage Δ
unittest	60.89% <89.28%> (-0.12%)	⬇️

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