chore(iroh, iroh-relay): Avoid a duplicate tungstenite dependency

[matheus23]

Description

Before we used to depend on both tungstenite version 0.21 as well as 0.24, because:

tungstenite v0.21.0
└── tokio-tungstenite v0.21.0
    └── tokio-tungstenite-wasm v0.3.1
        ├── iroh v0.29.0 (/home/philipp/program/work/iroh/iroh)
        └── iroh-relay v0.29.0 (/home/philipp/program/work/iroh/iroh-relay)
            ├── iroh v0.29.0 (/home/philipp/program/work/iroh/iroh)
            └── iroh-net-report v0.29.0 (/home/philipp/program/work/iroh/iroh-net-report)
                └── iroh v0.29.0 (/home/philipp/program/work/iroh/iroh)
tungstenite v0.24.0
└── tokio-tungstenite v0.24.0
    ├── iroh v0.29.0 (/home/philipp/program/work/iroh/iroh)
    └── iroh-relay v0.29.0 (/home/philipp/program/work/iroh/iroh-relay)
        ├── iroh v0.29.0 (/home/philipp/program/work/iroh/iroh)
        └── iroh-net-report v0.29.0 (/home/philipp/program/work/iroh/iroh-net-report)
            └── iroh v0.29.0 (/home/philipp/program/work/iroh/iroh)

Basically, tokio-tungstenite-wasm pulls in 0.21 and there's no newer version of it yet.
But we updated all our dependencies including tungstenite, duplicating it.

Notes & open questions

I want this to be temporary until we can finally switch to fasterwebsockets entirely once it implements poll-based methods (but I worry the project's maintenance is ... unclear).

I checked the tungstenite changelog, and it doesn't look like there's anything critical in there. The rustls update doesn't affect us - we don't duplicate rustls versions after this rollback.

Change checklist

• Self-review.
• Documentation updates following the style guide, if relevant.
• [ ] Tests if relevant.
• All breaking changes documented.

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Last updated: 2024-12-04T12:31:46Z

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